“You must constantly ask yourself these questions: Who am I around? What are they doing to me? What have they got me reading? What have they got me saying? Where do they have me going? What do they have me thinking? And most important, what do they have me becoming? Then ask yourself the big question: Is that okay? Your life does not get better by chance, it gets better by change.” Jim Rohn
My first challenge this new year in BECOMING will be to look at and evaluate relationships in my life. Are they propelling me forward or holding me back? I actually started this voyage late last summer which has lead to some drastic changes in our lives -- all for the better I must say. I feel as though I am much healthier now and ready to set healthy boundaries again. But I must now tackle the opposite side of these questions and observe a much more difficult perspective -- one that looks at whose life am I changing? Who am I challenging and investing in? What am I doing to them? What do I have them saying and reading? Where do I have them going? What do I have them becoming? I need to find at least one because at the end of their days who can ask for more than to have changed the life of one other for the better?
As I type these words it has never been so clear to me. I have the most wonderful opportunity right at my feet (literally right now). Not only to invest and change the life of one other person, but of three others. My children are the ones I will help become. For their lives will not get better by chance, it will only get better by change.
“If I accept you as you are, I will make you worse; however if I treat you as though you are what you are capable of becoming, I help you become that” Johann Wolfgang von Goethe
Who are you helping this year become? Who are you investing in? Are there some unhealthy relationships you need to sever? You will not get better by chance, but only by change. Take one step closer today in becoming who you are meant to be .